Kelly is a great person and a great leader. But, she has lost herself in her role. She's become unhealthy in her relationships. Before Kelly can connect in a meaningful way with relationships where she can contribute to and receive contributions, she needs to get a new perspective on her own sense of self. She needs to make sure the seed she is planting into a community is healthy. Once it is, there is nothing that can hold her back from achieving the life she wants to live.
You can probably relate to Kelly. You know what it's like to have people around you but not the people you can go deep with.